Writing About Your Own Life is Terrifying!
You know the experiences you’ve had that changed your life. I know mine. I thought it might be a good idea to write about them. I thought maybe someone out there could relate to them, perhaps find a kindred spirit in me. Admittedly, it would be as much for me as for them because I like the idea that I’m not alone. Yes, I like it very much.
The problem is in the telling. I’ve lived these moments and they are important to me. Yet, how do I convey my feelings and their consequences to others in a way that speaks to them? I know it takes skill, and it terrifies me. I’m not only concerned about telling my story in a compelling way, I’m also worried about feeling exposed and vulnerable. It can be a difficult journey, examining your life.
Why should I be afraid to write my own story? I think it’s worth telling, but it also means I am putting myself out there. If someone is critical of the story, are they also being critical of me?
It would be hard as a writer to be unable to take criticism. I like a bit of constructive criticism because it helps me evolve as a writer. Having a thick skin about my life, however, isn’t as easy.
Ultimately, I feel the entire process will be good. It will be a sort of catharsis for me and hopefully an interesting read for others. So, why not? As the old adage goes, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
I’m going to take a deep breath and begin.
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